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Flatiron Building. 4:30 PM. Photo: JH.
Tuesday, April 2, 2013. Sometimes sunny, temps in the 50s, with clouding in the late afternoon and a very light rain to wet the sidewalks and roadways. The weatherman says it’s going to get colder today and tomorrow. That’s alright, Spring is moving in.

New York magazine this week did what they call their
"Annual Yesteryear Issue" On "Childhood in New York/ When We Were Young." Funny. In the well of the magazine there are dozens of anecdotes told by people (whose names we know) who grew up here. I didn’t grow up here but my father did.

My father was born on this day 112 years ago in Brooklyn in this house (photo taken by the city in 1939) and on a street and in a neighborhood that was erased thirty-nine years later by Mr. Moses’ Brooklyn Queens Expressway. My father always used to refer to swimming in the East River on hot summer days. It’s hard to imagine (and I’ve thought about it many many times when looking at the river – and it still seems terrifying), but kids in those days did.
The house in Brooklyn in which my father was born in 1900. The family had moved away decades before this photograph was taken by the city in 1939 just before the area was razed to make room for the BQE.
I was born in New York and my family lived in this apartment house on 236 East 25 Street (the photo taken by the city in 1939; building still standing). The family moved to Massachusetts that same year. I first saw this neighborhood several years later when my eldest sister and her husband drove down to the city for the day to visit a childhood friend whose family still lived in the apartment house. The family was Armenian and I only remember the lunch with about eight of us sitting around an extended kitchen table eating the mother's roasted garlic chicken -- the first garlic I ever tasted, and incomparable even today.
Growing up I came to believe early, just from the talk around the kitchen table between my mother and my father that New York was the center of the world. He got the Daily News and the Mirror every day. That was the news that mattered. I always was going to live in New York when I grew up, having heard endless references to the city greater than any other on the planet. This was how my father knew it, and my mother, although she grew up in New England, agreed.

My mother first brought me here when I was six or eight and the image that remains in memory of that first time (wintertime) is the American flags gloriously waving front facades of the buildings on Fifth Avenue. A couple of buildings – maybe one of them was Saks Fifth Avenue, had three or four unfurled and waving. And the sidewalks were jammed with so many people, so many different kinds of people everywhere, and all surrounded by these massive towers of brick and concrete where even more people lived and worked. To this kid, it was an entire magnificent mystery, just waiting to be solved.
Saks in the '50s.
I came here to live in my twenty-first year. The first several months I camped out in the apartment of the mother of a college friend who rarely used it, and which I did not know when I accepted the invitation, was a 16 room duplex at 740 Park Avenue. Within a year I moved into my own first apartment which I shared with a college fraternity brother was a one bedroom on the first floor in the back of an old five story (walkup) building at 163 East 87th Street (still standing). Tiny, on the first floor in the back of the building, with a bathroom, a bedroom and a kitchenette in a wall closet in the living room. The rent was $110 a month, split two ways.  And life had just begun.

Six -year-old Spike Lee on the cover of New York's Annual Yesteryear issue.
Tom Wolfe’s reportage and writing style defined the new New York.
All this from looking at the latest issue of New York today. I was living here when the first New York it the newstands. It was a thin supplement in the Sunday Herald-Tribune. It had color unlike the very serious “good grey Times” Sunday magazine which was gritty serious.  The Trib’s new supplement raised the news stakes with it, and it was the right time, the right note and the context. To a new young New Yorker, this was the future.

New York was to become, by the time it became its own weekly magazine and not part of the Trib, uptown hip – sophisticated, groundbreaking, literary, cool, now. (The Village Voice was unalterably the downtown hip – and The Village was downtown – no SoHo, etc. which was a half decade away from establishing as the artists were beginning to move into the former industrial district).

The Trib incidentally was the "Republican" paper (to the Times'"Democrat"). The art director Milton Glaser and editor Clay Felker were New York's creators, with Barbara Goldsmith (a Founding Editor), Jimmy Breslin, George Goodman (writing under the nom de plume Adam Smith), Gail Sheehy, Gloria Steinem. Barbara Goldsmith wrote a widely imitated column "The Creative Environment" in which she interviewed Picasso, Marcel Breuer, George Balanchine, and I.M. Pei; Gael Greene wrote the dining column, Harold Clurman covered theatre; a newcomer named Woody Allen wrote some humor pieces; and a new journalist, Tom Wolfe created a new style of journalism, with his edgy, zesty wham-bam-glam-blam language about the what and the where and the who. Not like anybody else, Tom Wolfe's reportage and writing style defined the vibe of the new New York, New York.

The hippest crowd of all in town at that moment were the fashion photographers – Irving Penn, Melvin Sokolsky, Bill Helburn, Steve Horn, Richard Avedon, Jerry Shatzberg, Bill King, Duane Michals and dozens of others of equal note and comparable talent, and always surrounded by beautiful fashion models who were famous faces if not in name.

These were the days when Vreeland was a major force in the fashion world, soaking up the new culture of New York. Moving right along and coming up beside them were the Pop Artists, the new modern artists including Andy Warhol, Lichtenstein, Rauschenberg, Rosenquist, Larry Poons, Jim Dine, Jasper Johns and many more. They all convened every night at Max’ Kansas City on Park Avenue South in the 20s. There was a kid down in the Village who wrote his own songs and friends lamented that he didn’t have the voice to become a star with his great material. Peter, Paul and Mary took his work mainstream with “Blowin’ in the Wind,” and a few minutes later, Bobby Dylan was recording his own songs and becoming a major star.
Paul Morrissey, Andy Warhol, Janis Joplin, and Tim Buckley at Max's Kansas City (photo by Elliott Landy).
This was the New York that I, still a kid, a hayseed, fresh from the farm, had just moved to. It was so exciting that just walking down Lexington Avenue at nightfall and looking up at the Chrysler Building in the distance was a quiet thrill and early inspiration. It was as if the architecture of the city was trumpeting the message: Here it is: the grand challenge. I was in the city of dreams. Although I had quite a ways to go.

Meanwhile, this week’s New York. Reading it, I was reminded again of how much more sophisticated are the kids who grow up here. They all have a sense of place that comes earlier in life than it does, if it does, with country boys and girls. Spike Lee recalls when he was six and a little boy of color who already got the score of who stood where: he was on the subway, traveling.

That was long ago now (and the token cost 15 cents in the 1960s – until they raised it to a quarter), but that was the same New York I came to. This six-year-old would have been terrified at the thought of going alone on the subway, by  the sheer volume of humanity packing themselves into those cars.

When I came back from California in the early '90s and was introducing myself to the big town and its ways again, one night I was in bed channel surfing, when I came up on a cable show called Robin Byrd. There it was: live television with go-go boys and girls solo-dancing, barely dressed (if that) and sexualizing their steps with “800-“ numbers on a crawl at the bottom of the screen, and Robin Byrd herself looking like she’d overstayed at the tanning parlor and left all but her undies back there.

It seems tame in the telling twenty years later, but at the time it was the nearest thing to pornography on the TV and shocking  to this newly returned hayseed. My first thought was that there must be a lot of New York kids with TV’s in their bedrooms watching this stuff. (Well, why not?).

What was that doing to the kids (pre-pubescenters for example)? I could only think it must be shocking, aside from a few other things. Tells you a little bit about me but not necessarily about kids growing up in New York.

Several years later when I was first working with JH who was a total native New Yorker and fresh out of college, I asked him if he ever watched the Robin Byrd show when he was a boy growing up in his parents’ house. Oh sure, he answered. And what did you think? I wanted to know.

“I thought it was funny,” he said and started to laugh in the remembering.  A New York kid.
 

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